Tuesday, April 19, 2005

Should i say this is the 2nd part of the blog on April 13? Anyway lets carry on...

I got a few response about April 13's blog. Lucky no hate email. *Althought i'm wishing for one to know if i said anything wrong*

Arul asked me something like that.. "Lionel, are those your problem or what?" Maybe he suspect that i was using the female friend as a shadow to talk my problem out. Muhahaha... i guess he would reply okieeeee and the other word.. suthu p..? correct spelling?


Thats Arul, the cockroach killer!!! You should have seen what he was doing back at the chalet. Gals, don't worry we two are not walking on the beach hand in hand :p Weihao was missing inside because i think he was building a sand castle? *forgotten what he was doing* This was taken when we were at a chalet during March Holiday at 6am++

Back to answering his question. Directly nope but whatever i typed in my blogs, somehow interlinks to my problem which i don't want to be so direct. When she (previous girl whom i blog on April 13) told me her problem, i think from a outsider view. From here i learn.

When you're interested in someone, that doesn't mean he/she has to be interested in you. You can't force him/her to like/love you. He/She has their own choice. DON'T TRICK HIM/HER INTO P.T.L *blink eyes* What you can do is to tell him/her you're interested in he/her? bleh tricky question to answer. No one would have like to have a negative answer back but this is the fact how this works. There's always 4 answer waiting. Yes, No, Maybe and worst of all no answer.

- Yes, he/she is also interested in you. Carrying you into another step to a relationship.

- No, stand no chance but you can only like/love him/her in your heart while watching him/her in other person arms but then you can be more thick skin to ignore the no :p

- Maybe, 50% 50% chance. Some love are win through time and patient.

- No answer, give him/her more time to think about it but have a time frame for it!!! Don't be an idiot that keeps waiting. Don't add more problems to him/her life.

In my case... i also don't know which one i belong too. DUH! Although its not a negative answer but will she give me a chance? *sign* *bangs head against wall*

WARNING:

The above above paragraph are SERIOULY NOT for JERKS AND BITCHES. It applys to those who are IN LOVE ONLY not PLAYING WITH LOVE!!!

Franky speaking, i'm shy telling someone i'm interested in face to face or through the phone. What the fuck hell, Lionel SHY??! *puke* Yes i know its hard to believe. Why? Because its like out of the blue for her, telling her that i'm interested in her. Other reason is.. the way they reacted to it. Some might just ignore or act blur huh huh? or oh is it...? of course there are other way of reacting to it. Then next day both will turn complete strangers due to shyness and whatever shity reason. Damm funny when i see such thing happened on others or myself. I can advise others like hey you like her go for it but myself i can't. Damm paiseh aka shy. Muahahaha this is lame... meanwhile take a step at a time

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Saw Junhan's Blog? his follow up version of mine. *free advertisement for you, Junhan. Return you the favour*

I agree with the last sentences he said about surprises.

Quoted: "if theres' surprises from him/her everyday, i think that is not surprises anymore. It already becomes a everyday needs..." *edited due to language error* :p

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Read Weihao's blog? I got to apologize to him for having to start all the thinking again but then i speak the truth.

Why i blog that..? because this "things" has been kept inside me. I don't like to talk about it face to face but rather post it in blog to share my inner thoughts with the others. What i had thought, you might not have know and vice versa. Knowing the problems and how to counter it instead of running away from it.

Haha April 13's Blog entry was not about pampering girls. Let me think of a more catchy name. How about... How To Treat Each Other Equal? Choices Are In Your Hand? Nono combines those 2 together. How To Treat Each Other Equal & Choices Are In Your Hand.

Oh ya nice bottom line weihao but sometime things don't usually works that way. You lost some you gain some.

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Conclusion

Yes, i'm very curious how a love relationship works thats why i'm so into it and the way how human reacts and thinks.

Have you wonder how powerful love is? It can change a person and how he/she performs anything he/she does? because of something he/she willing to this for him/her. Thats how strong it is. Am i right? Sometimes i do thing just to gain that little attention from her. Sounds dumb...? :p

I'm not crazy or anything. Just interested in how each and everyone of us reacts and thinks. Everyone has its own unique mind set. I'm trying to understand it.

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