Lazy to blog this few days..
Sit back and enjoy reading
1. no one knows the relation better then u do, when in doubt, try not to look at the relation as a part of it... look at it as if u're an out-sider. u'll see better and think clearer.
2. no matter what situation u're faced with, show courage and trust, to solve the problems and not avoid it. believe in ur feelings, believe in urself...
3. if a relation has to end, let it be, pack up ur feelings and move up, life has to continue, and one of this days, u'll have to pick up the shattered pieces and start living again, why let it drag, why not make it today?
4. if a person leaves u, it's not becos u're that lousy, that weak..(a small percent of the time, tis is ture... but it's so small, let's neglect it altogether..)it's becos he/she no longer loves u, and that u should no longer love him/her too...
5. the is always the factor of time and space, maybe the time was rite, but the space was wrong... so no choice, can be friends... who knows, maybe in the near future, time and space will come together...
6. lastly, love is not what others say, think or feel... after all, u only seek company and help when there is problems... u'll never ask ur friend out to celebrate any great moments, so who knows the good side of the relation but you? do whta u feel u mus, but always give your best, and be true to urself...
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3 yrs ago..
Kin n Angel was 2 lovely couple..Kin was a full time SAF guy..who works all day n didn't haf sufficient time 2 be wif Angel..So Angel often quarrels wif him due 2 tis..at e beginning of their relationship..dey promise each other dey wil buy gifts for each other
every weekends..As dey promised..Angel went 2 buy Army designed action figures 4 Kin coz Kin was in love wif tis kind of action figures..N Kin..he is always late for their date..coz he went 2 buy a ring 4 her..at 1st..Angel loves tat ring although it's simple..but aft a yr..Kin stil buys her e same ring..n Angel started 2 get sick of e RIng..but she dun wish 2 tell Kin bout tis..2yrs ltr..Kin called up Angel n wish 2 mit her for a tok..n Kin sounded serious..
Tat night..
Kin: dear..
Angel: Yes..
Kin: i'm goin off soon..
Angel: to Where?!
Kin: USA..
Angel: Y..watz That 4?
Kin: USA army ask our country 2 go ther n haf an exchange of Knowledge..
Angel: but y muz it b u?!!
Kin: im oso nt sure but..i'm leaving tml..take tis...
Angel: tis again!! y u kip giving me tis STUPID ring..i dun wan tis(she pass back 2 kin)
Kin:..(turns n walks away..)
juz like tat..Kin leaves..Angel went home n cried throughout e nite..juz hoping Kin wil gif her a call..but he didn't..till e nxt day..Kin called n told her he is goin off soon..he at
e airport..but by e time Angel reach e airport..Kin is no longer ther..
6months ltr...
Angel was on her way back...she saw Kin..Kin approached her n pass her e RIng again..
Kin: dear..accept it please..
Angel: ..(speechless n took e RIng..)
Kin: dear..pls...4get mi..
Angel: WHAT?!?!
Kin: .....(turned n walked off...)
Angel: Wait!!
Angel ran towards the direction where Kin goes off 2 chase for him but..he disappeared..Angel went home n called Kin's house but his parents say he's nt home yet..she hang up n went 2 sleep..the image of Kin saying "4get me..pls.." kip on comin into Angel's mind..suddenly...her phone rings...n she's being shocked 2 wake up..
???: Hello??
Angel: U r??
???: I'm callin from American University Hospital..
Angel: who r u lookin 4?
Nurse: i'm looking for miss Angel..
Angel: I am..
Nurse: Erm..do u noe e guy whose name is Kin?
Angel: Ya..(wondering..)
Nurse: erm..sumting happen 2 him..he was on a trip n he met a accident..a broken tree
broke off n hits directly on him..
Angel: How is he now?!?!?(crying..)
Nurse: Miss..pls relax n cool down..i'm sad 2 tell u tat....He's DEAD..
Angel: No!..It can't be!!..i juz saw him!!..can i noe wat time is his death?
Nurse: 2 hrs ago..
Angel: No!!..it's imposible!!!(Angel hang up e phone..)
Angel cant believe it..she cried n cried till her eyes were sore..she can't take tis news..days pass..she been not eating..slpin..or even rest..but juz crying...she lock herself up in her room..n she went 2 take all those RIngs that Kin bought 4 her..she
observe n look at all e rings..suddenly..she realise..inside every diamond..there's a
word..
She took out all the rings den she realise she gt 25 diamond rings..look carefuly..she realise..all those rings form up a sentence..she reads out.."Angel..I..Love..U.. Pls..Be.. Wif..Me..4eve"..she felt strange..it's nt complete..suddenly..she rmb e last ring tat Kin pass her..she took out frm her pocket n..read.."Angel..I..Love..U..Pls..Be..Wif..Me..4e
ver"
..she start 2 cry again..Actually..kin was late 4 their date is becoz he nid 2 rush aft his work n go n get tis specially designed RIng..n Angel doesn't noe bout it..kin is able 2 pass e last ring..it's nt him..but his soul..
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A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked,"Who would like this $20 bill?"Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this.He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill.He then asked, "Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air.Well, he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the groundand started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty."Now, who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air. My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value.It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives,we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make andthe circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who DO LOVE you. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but by WHO WE ARE.You are special- Don't EVER forget it."
Monday, March 28, 2005
Friday, March 25, 2005
Today, I shall talk about what happened recently about myself instead of the news. (Hey I got to read up all the newspaper to gather infomation on whats going on since the chalet don't provide newspaper so its more on myself today :P)
Cool, I'm back from a 3 days 2 night chalet. Well I got back yesterday night. Was supposed to be there till this morning but the usual grp I hang around had gone back (went back with them yesterday night) and maybe abit of jealousy if I was to stay on.
Met Weihao and Zann at Paris Ris Interchange at 4pm. Took a bus and had lunch at Downtown East's Macdonalds. (They wanted me to choose where I wanted to have lunch even thought they were the ones hungry and I had eaten before I joined them...DUH) Made our way to cheers to buy some plastic bowls and headed to Costa Sands Resorts Pasir Ris G1.
We were early. Yan Song, Hung Poh, Erik, Eric, Wenyu, Anderlin (Wenyu's Elder Sister) and Jesscia were already there. I supposed all the food was prepared by Jesscia. My first time meeting Anderlin, our senior citizen. Muhahaha. Everyone calls her Da Jie meaning Big Sister so I followed suit. She is friendly, easy going and likes to talk ALOT. I mean ALOT !!!
Actually this chalet is organise by Yan Song. It was meant to celebrate his Birthday but there was some misunderstanding involving who was invited and money problem. Anyway its cleared by Da Jie *cheers*
While barbequing and eating, we had a small grp talk with Da Jie more like a Boy Girl Relationship talk. I wan kinda surprised what I heard. Da Jie said I look like those good boy type and its the girl lost to lose me. My feeling at that time was like should I feel happy or sad? It made me think back whether I did anything wrong or maybe I'm just a online person like she said. Anyway the tag I replied to her had been edited 3 times. To make it less like i'm petty or whatever cos yes I still feel sad when I think about it and I don't want her to cry over my stupid comments.
Back to chalet, took a walk with Weihao around the chalet. Guy to guy talk. So many problems in our mind. Friends, Family, Love and alot of stuff. (Don't worry Weihao You got me and I got you :p) sounds gay Muhahaha
Junhan, Xinghong and Calvin arrived about 10pm+ just in time to sing the birthday song. Sang in english, chinese and cantonese (I don't know how to sing that). I don't like the feeling having others to sing for me. I'll get goose bump. After that they carried Yan Song to where? To the swimming pool and that was history. Drench from top to toe. Cool huh? Sensational feeling?
They were grps of young children using the drinking vending machine. They were from Hongkong. I understand what they are saying but I don't know how to speak. One by one they were asking for small change for the vending machine till everyone was out of coins. Cute. About 1am+ Arul and Aidil came. There was no more food. Poor them.
I spent the whole night more on self thinking then playing dai dee and Xbox. Different environment makes me feel or think better. About 6am+ went to the beach with Arul and Weihao. Misty view in the sea. I think I decided to give it a go at her. Went back to sleep at 7.30am You should have seem how I position myself to sleep and I'm really sure the person who snored was XINGHONG.
About 12 noon, we went Wild Wild Wet. First time being there. I think we took all the rides. I like the U shaped ride. Only that give me the feeling of being high the other rest were like DUH! I just any how shout like I'm enjoying myself on the rides. Really no cake can yawn.
Went back to chalet. Take a beach walk with Jesscia and bought her favorite ice cream. Dropped my handphone again.. this is the second time. and it split open on the TOP when I was looking for the ice cream -_-|| ! They ordered 3 boxes of pizza. After finishing it, Zann, Weihao, Junhan, Huifen, Xinghong and myself made our way home.
It doesn't matter how much money I spend as long as it can bring some happiness to her or whoever. I know my limits and budget. Guys don't think I'm rich, I'm just like all of you. I know when to spend and when not to.
Cool, I'm back from a 3 days 2 night chalet. Well I got back yesterday night. Was supposed to be there till this morning but the usual grp I hang around had gone back (went back with them yesterday night) and maybe abit of jealousy if I was to stay on.
Met Weihao and Zann at Paris Ris Interchange at 4pm. Took a bus and had lunch at Downtown East's Macdonalds. (They wanted me to choose where I wanted to have lunch even thought they were the ones hungry and I had eaten before I joined them...DUH) Made our way to cheers to buy some plastic bowls and headed to Costa Sands Resorts Pasir Ris G1.
We were early. Yan Song, Hung Poh, Erik, Eric, Wenyu, Anderlin (Wenyu's Elder Sister) and Jesscia were already there. I supposed all the food was prepared by Jesscia. My first time meeting Anderlin, our senior citizen. Muhahaha. Everyone calls her Da Jie meaning Big Sister so I followed suit. She is friendly, easy going and likes to talk ALOT. I mean ALOT !!!
Actually this chalet is organise by Yan Song. It was meant to celebrate his Birthday but there was some misunderstanding involving who was invited and money problem. Anyway its cleared by Da Jie *cheers*
While barbequing and eating, we had a small grp talk with Da Jie more like a Boy Girl Relationship talk. I wan kinda surprised what I heard. Da Jie said I look like those good boy type and its the girl lost to lose me. My feeling at that time was like should I feel happy or sad? It made me think back whether I did anything wrong or maybe I'm just a online person like she said. Anyway the tag I replied to her had been edited 3 times. To make it less like i'm petty or whatever cos yes I still feel sad when I think about it and I don't want her to cry over my stupid comments.
Back to chalet, took a walk with Weihao around the chalet. Guy to guy talk. So many problems in our mind. Friends, Family, Love and alot of stuff. (Don't worry Weihao You got me and I got you :p) sounds gay Muhahaha
Junhan, Xinghong and Calvin arrived about 10pm+ just in time to sing the birthday song. Sang in english, chinese and cantonese (I don't know how to sing that). I don't like the feeling having others to sing for me. I'll get goose bump. After that they carried Yan Song to where? To the swimming pool and that was history. Drench from top to toe. Cool huh? Sensational feeling?
They were grps of young children using the drinking vending machine. They were from Hongkong. I understand what they are saying but I don't know how to speak. One by one they were asking for small change for the vending machine till everyone was out of coins. Cute. About 1am+ Arul and Aidil came. There was no more food. Poor them.
I spent the whole night more on self thinking then playing dai dee and Xbox. Different environment makes me feel or think better. About 6am+ went to the beach with Arul and Weihao. Misty view in the sea. I think I decided to give it a go at her. Went back to sleep at 7.30am You should have seem how I position myself to sleep and I'm really sure the person who snored was XINGHONG.
About 12 noon, we went Wild Wild Wet. First time being there. I think we took all the rides. I like the U shaped ride. Only that give me the feeling of being high the other rest were like DUH! I just any how shout like I'm enjoying myself on the rides. Really no cake can yawn.
Went back to chalet. Take a beach walk with Jesscia and bought her favorite ice cream. Dropped my handphone again.. this is the second time. and it split open on the TOP when I was looking for the ice cream -_-|| ! They ordered 3 boxes of pizza. After finishing it, Zann, Weihao, Junhan, Huifen, Xinghong and myself made our way home.
It doesn't matter how much money I spend as long as it can bring some happiness to her or whoever. I know my limits and budget. Guys don't think I'm rich, I'm just like all of you. I know when to spend and when not to.
Monday, March 21, 2005
On Discovery Channel, it shows what happened On March 20, 1995, in the midst of morning rush hour, five highly placed members boarded five trains at different stations. At a predetermined point in time, the five members punctured bags of sarin wrapped in newspaper with umbrellas as they left their trains. The time and place appear to have been deliberately selected, as Kasumigaseki Stationis located under many government offices and the National Police Agency's headquarters. It killed 12 and injured 5,500 others.
Althought the founder Shoko Asahara was caught and sentenced to death but it's cult still pose a big danger to Japan. On January 18, 2000, the cult announced it was changing its name to Arefu (Aleph, in English). Its still recuiting people to join them! Scarey...
Have you been to Japan? Their Subway is CONFUSING. That part is for Tokyo only. If i'm right there another 11 more subway maps in Japan. Theres.. Ibaraki, Kobe, Kyoto, Niigata, Oita, Osaka, Saitama, Sapporo, Sendai, Shizuoka and Yokohama. Enjoy figuring where it leads to.
Now then they realised this ??? Well thats good news for those wanting to go into Poly graduating this year. They can almost save half.
So whats on today for myself. DISSAPPOINTMENT >.<
Firstly, there is suppose to be a trip on Good Friday to Genting with my friends. Weihao actually planned in advanced. How much and we were going. About $140+ 3 days 2 night Genting and KL. But was cancelled.. thanks to some buggers having last minutes thoughts. No money and other plans. No money nad other plans..? told them about $140+ for trip already and when we are leaving. Disappointment..
Secondly, supposed to have soccer with the guys tomorrow. Planned last week. Time and place was done. Tuesday 7-9pm and we got to book the place. Everything was done but the time slot was taken. Change to 11am-1am thats on Sunday NIGHT when i knew it. Ok i'm fine with it.
On Sunday NOON, a friend ask me wanna join her on Monday for chalet which i have given word to it. So i'm sandwich between chalet and soccer cos chalet usually means having to stay overnight and not knowing the soccer time had changed. Of course you can't possible ask me to tell my friend oh i'm sorry i got soccer which is more important. FUCK YOU if you think the soccer was cancelled because of me not having enought players. I'm not angry with them but kinda pissed off which i don't think its a joke at all. Something which i have promise or given word to, i'll do it not like some. *points all fingers and toes at Aidil*
Actually all this promises and given word stuff had an impact on me when I was in secondary school. *STARES at Hock Chai* my BEST BUDDY during those days. He keeps promising this and that but somehow failed to keep his word to someone and phone me one unforgettable day. *pss its still saved with me* =X this is how or what it has made a impact on me.
Anyway the chalet in the end also never went. Because her friend din't tell her the time or something. So thats 3 DISSAPOINTMENT >.<
Changed the font size bigger due to being 20 means getting old with poor eyes sight =/ and removed the music cos its beginning to irritate. This goes to show how often I visit my blog. Looking for a site to host some classic piano and flute song to share with you guys...
Sunday, March 20, 2005
Singapore is going to build a $226m dam across Marina Channel to offer rooftop view of area and space for recreation along the area enlarged. The dam which is 350m long, made of concrete and steel will be ready in two years' time is the culmination of a 20-year plan to create an urban reservoir. It not only add to Singapore's water supply but also check flooding in the city. Its going to be Singapore 15th reservoir. Water sports can be held at the Marina reservoir. Canoeing, Wakeboarding, F1 power boat racing and many others.
Cool huh? I din't know singapore have 14 reservoir. Its another place of interest to go to next time. I'm really sure the night view will be very fantastic. Enjoying the scenery and listening to the sea breeze. Simply wonderfully...
If you have spare time, do read Xiaxue's blog. Best Asian Blog winner 2004. Her command of english is damm good. Do read up some of her "classics entries" its so hilarious. She actually got the time to really go the extra miles to make jokes on certain stuff. Oh ya don't ever ever cross into her path. With her command of english, she can turn you from a hero to a zero and you'll turn into a celebrity overnight cause of the fans she got. Just take a look at the entires for cab snatcher. Muhahaha...
Friday, March 18, 2005
Last night my chest hurts again -_-|| I guess i was too full because after dinner then it happened. Right now there's still some uneasiness on the chest. Damm lousy me. Now i had to eat fish oil pills? lol my aunt ask me to eat. I also don't know why.
Been rather feeling guilty for sometime. argggghh maybe i think too much.
Don't try to understand me but know me. Because i'm a complicated thinker. DON'T ASSUME that i'm sad or whatever when i don't talk. There's many reasons.
Maybe i don't feel like talking?
I got no topic to talk with you?
I'm into deep thinking?
I don't wanna be 'light blub'?
I don't click with you?
Lol theres much more reasons then those above. I talk when I want to if not I'll rather be quiet and observe how is happening around me. Incase someone is looking for trouble or whatever so to my friends or myself. Keep myself prepare.
Can't wait to read the news about the casion issue tomorrow. Today the goverment is thinking whether to approve it. Nah not that i'm interested in gambling. I wanna see how Singaporean react to this touchy issue. 19 proposal all over the world wants to invest in Singapore. If it is approved, it will greatly boast Singapore's economy. Creating more jobs, pulling more tourists and so on. This is a good part and of course there also the bad part. Social problems bleh bleh bleh. We should trust the goverment. I mean come on they are doing this for the best of singapore not themselves. Look at how Singapore had developed into and I know there can't be room for any misjudgement from the goverment. Just one wrong move overnight it could turn 0. This are just my personal views ^_^
Was blog hopping around when the 10 Myths caught my attention. Enjoy...
The Ten Myths.
MYTH #1: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS ON A GREAT MEETING OF THE MINDS
You will never see things through your partner's eyes because you are two entirely different people. You are genetically, physiologically, psychologically and historically different.
You will not solve your relationship problems by becoming more alike in your thinking. Men and women are wired differently. Attempting to blur your fundamentally different viewpoints is unnatural and even dangerous.
Recognize that a relationship is far more enjoyable when you're with someone who enriches your life, not simply reflects it. Appreciate your differences.
MYTH #2: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES A GREAT ROMANCE
Yes, your life with your partner should include plenty of romance. But don't kid yourself and expect an unrealistic Hollywood fairytale. The truth is that in the real world, being in love is not like falling in love.
Falling in love is only the first stage of love. It's impossible to remain in that stage. A mature relationship will shift from dizzying infatuation to a deeper, more secure love.
Don't make the common mistake of thinking that when the initial wild passion fades you aren't in love anymore. The answer is not to start a new relationship so you can recapture that emotional high with someone else. The answer is to learn how to move on to the next stages of love for a different but richer experience.
MYTH #3: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES GREAT PROBLEM-SOLVING
Don't fall into the trap of believing that you and your partner can't be happy if you can't resolve your serious disagreements. Ninety percent of problems in a relationship are not solvable.
There are things that you and your partner disagree about and will continue to disagree about. Why can't you once and for all resolve these issues? Because in order to do so, one of you would have to sacrifice your values and beliefs.
You can simply agree to disagree and reach "emotional closure" even though you haven't reached closure on the issue.
MYTH #4: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES COMMON INTERESTS THAT BOND YOU TOGETHER FOREVER
There is nothing wrong with your relationship if you don't share common interests and activities.
If you and your partner are forcing yourselves to engage in common activities but the results are stress, tension and conflict, don't do it!
MYTH #5: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS A PEACEFUL ONE
Don't be afraid to argue because you think it's a sign of weakness or relationship breakdown. Even the healthiest couples argue.
If approached properly, arguing can actually help the relationship by (a) releasing tension and (b) instilling the sense of peace and trust that comes from knowing you can release feelings without being abandoned or humiliated.
Instead of worrying about how many times you argue, worry about how you argue. Here are some guidelines:
Don't abandon the issue and attack the worth of your partner during an argument.
Don't seek conflict because it's stimulating.
Don't pursue a take-no-prisoners approach in your arguments.
Don't avoid achieving emotional closure at the end of an argument.
MYTH #6: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP LETS YOU VENT ALL YOUR FEELINGS
Getting things off your chest might feel good, but when you blurt something out in the heat of the moment, you risk damaging your relationship permanently. Many relationships are destroyed when one partner can't forgive something that was said during uncensored venting.
Before you say something you might regret, bite your tongue and give yourself a moment to consider how you really feel. The things we say while we're letting loose often don't represent how we really feel and shouldn't be communicated ?especially if they are potentially destructive.
MYTH #7: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX
The belief that sex is not important is a dangerous and intimacy-eroding myth. Sex provides an important time-out from the pressures of our daily lives and allows us to experience a quality level of closeness, vulnerability and sharing with our partners.
Sex might not be everything but it registers higher (90 percent) on the "importance scale" if it's a source of frustration in your relationship. If your sex life is unfulfilled, it becomes a gigantic issue. On the other hand, couples that have satisfying sex lives rate sex at only 10 percent on the "importance scale."
Don't restrict your thinking by considering sex to be something that only consists of the actual physical act. Touching, caressing, holding hands and any means by which you provide physical comfort to your partner can all be viewed as part of a fulfilling sex life.
MYTH #8: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP CANNOT SURVIVE A FLAWED PARTNER
Nobody's perfect. As long as your partner's quirks are non-abusive and non-destructive, you can learn to live with them.
Instead of focusing on your partner's shortcomings, remember the qualities that attracted you in the first place. Perhaps some of these idiosyncrasies were part of the attraction? Just because a behavior isn't mainstream, doesn't mean that it's toxic to the relationship.
Be careful to distinguish the difference between a partner with quirks and one with a serious problem. Serious problems that are destructive and abusive include substance abuse and mental/physical abuse. Unlike idiosyncrasies, these are not behaviors you should learn to live with.
MYTH #9: THERE IS A RIGHT WAY AND A WRONG WAY TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP GREAT
Nothing could be further from the truth. There is no definitive "right way" to be a good spouse, good parent, or to handle any relationship challenge that life throws you.
Do what works for you rather than following some standards you might have read in a book or heard from a well-meaning friend. If what you and your partner are doing is generating the results you want, stick with it. If both of you are comfortable with the principles that work, you can write your own rules.
Remember not to be rigid about the way in which you accept your partner's expressions of love. There is no "right way" for someone to love you. The fact that your partner expresses feelings differently doesn't make those feelings less genuine or of less value.
MYTH #10: YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN BECOME GREAT ONLY WHEN YOU STRAIGHTEN YOUR PARTNER OUT
Don't fall into the trap of believing that if you could change your partner, your relationship would be better. You are, at the very least, jointly accountable for the relationship.
Let go of the childlike notion that falling in love means finding someone who will be responsible for your happiness. You need to take responsibility for your own happiness.
If your relationship is distressed, the most important person for you to change might be yourself. Once you identify the payoffs you are subconsciously seeking with destructive behavior, you can choose to remove them from your life.
Been rather feeling guilty for sometime. argggghh maybe i think too much.
Don't try to understand me but know me. Because i'm a complicated thinker. DON'T ASSUME that i'm sad or whatever when i don't talk. There's many reasons.
Maybe i don't feel like talking?
I got no topic to talk with you?
I'm into deep thinking?
I don't wanna be 'light blub'?
I don't click with you?
Lol theres much more reasons then those above. I talk when I want to if not I'll rather be quiet and observe how is happening around me. Incase someone is looking for trouble or whatever so to my friends or myself. Keep myself prepare.
Can't wait to read the news about the casion issue tomorrow. Today the goverment is thinking whether to approve it. Nah not that i'm interested in gambling. I wanna see how Singaporean react to this touchy issue. 19 proposal all over the world wants to invest in Singapore. If it is approved, it will greatly boast Singapore's economy. Creating more jobs, pulling more tourists and so on. This is a good part and of course there also the bad part. Social problems bleh bleh bleh. We should trust the goverment. I mean come on they are doing this for the best of singapore not themselves. Look at how Singapore had developed into and I know there can't be room for any misjudgement from the goverment. Just one wrong move overnight it could turn 0. This are just my personal views ^_^
Was blog hopping around when the 10 Myths caught my attention. Enjoy...
The Ten Myths.
MYTH #1: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP DEPENDS ON A GREAT MEETING OF THE MINDS
You will never see things through your partner's eyes because you are two entirely different people. You are genetically, physiologically, psychologically and historically different.
You will not solve your relationship problems by becoming more alike in your thinking. Men and women are wired differently. Attempting to blur your fundamentally different viewpoints is unnatural and even dangerous.
Recognize that a relationship is far more enjoyable when you're with someone who enriches your life, not simply reflects it. Appreciate your differences.
MYTH #2: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES A GREAT ROMANCE
Yes, your life with your partner should include plenty of romance. But don't kid yourself and expect an unrealistic Hollywood fairytale. The truth is that in the real world, being in love is not like falling in love.
Falling in love is only the first stage of love. It's impossible to remain in that stage. A mature relationship will shift from dizzying infatuation to a deeper, more secure love.
Don't make the common mistake of thinking that when the initial wild passion fades you aren't in love anymore. The answer is not to start a new relationship so you can recapture that emotional high with someone else. The answer is to learn how to move on to the next stages of love for a different but richer experience.
MYTH #3: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES GREAT PROBLEM-SOLVING
Don't fall into the trap of believing that you and your partner can't be happy if you can't resolve your serious disagreements. Ninety percent of problems in a relationship are not solvable.
There are things that you and your partner disagree about and will continue to disagree about. Why can't you once and for all resolve these issues? Because in order to do so, one of you would have to sacrifice your values and beliefs.
You can simply agree to disagree and reach "emotional closure" even though you haven't reached closure on the issue.
MYTH #4: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES COMMON INTERESTS THAT BOND YOU TOGETHER FOREVER
There is nothing wrong with your relationship if you don't share common interests and activities.
If you and your partner are forcing yourselves to engage in common activities but the results are stress, tension and conflict, don't do it!
MYTH #5: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS A PEACEFUL ONE
Don't be afraid to argue because you think it's a sign of weakness or relationship breakdown. Even the healthiest couples argue.
If approached properly, arguing can actually help the relationship by (a) releasing tension and (b) instilling the sense of peace and trust that comes from knowing you can release feelings without being abandoned or humiliated.
Instead of worrying about how many times you argue, worry about how you argue. Here are some guidelines:
Don't abandon the issue and attack the worth of your partner during an argument.
Don't seek conflict because it's stimulating.
Don't pursue a take-no-prisoners approach in your arguments.
Don't avoid achieving emotional closure at the end of an argument.
MYTH #6: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP LETS YOU VENT ALL YOUR FEELINGS
Getting things off your chest might feel good, but when you blurt something out in the heat of the moment, you risk damaging your relationship permanently. Many relationships are destroyed when one partner can't forgive something that was said during uncensored venting.
Before you say something you might regret, bite your tongue and give yourself a moment to consider how you really feel. The things we say while we're letting loose often don't represent how we really feel and shouldn't be communicated ?especially if they are potentially destructive.
MYTH #7: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX
The belief that sex is not important is a dangerous and intimacy-eroding myth. Sex provides an important time-out from the pressures of our daily lives and allows us to experience a quality level of closeness, vulnerability and sharing with our partners.
Sex might not be everything but it registers higher (90 percent) on the "importance scale" if it's a source of frustration in your relationship. If your sex life is unfulfilled, it becomes a gigantic issue. On the other hand, couples that have satisfying sex lives rate sex at only 10 percent on the "importance scale."
Don't restrict your thinking by considering sex to be something that only consists of the actual physical act. Touching, caressing, holding hands and any means by which you provide physical comfort to your partner can all be viewed as part of a fulfilling sex life.
MYTH #8: A GREAT RELATIONSHIP CANNOT SURVIVE A FLAWED PARTNER
Nobody's perfect. As long as your partner's quirks are non-abusive and non-destructive, you can learn to live with them.
Instead of focusing on your partner's shortcomings, remember the qualities that attracted you in the first place. Perhaps some of these idiosyncrasies were part of the attraction? Just because a behavior isn't mainstream, doesn't mean that it's toxic to the relationship.
Be careful to distinguish the difference between a partner with quirks and one with a serious problem. Serious problems that are destructive and abusive include substance abuse and mental/physical abuse. Unlike idiosyncrasies, these are not behaviors you should learn to live with.
MYTH #9: THERE IS A RIGHT WAY AND A WRONG WAY TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP GREAT
Nothing could be further from the truth. There is no definitive "right way" to be a good spouse, good parent, or to handle any relationship challenge that life throws you.
Do what works for you rather than following some standards you might have read in a book or heard from a well-meaning friend. If what you and your partner are doing is generating the results you want, stick with it. If both of you are comfortable with the principles that work, you can write your own rules.
Remember not to be rigid about the way in which you accept your partner's expressions of love. There is no "right way" for someone to love you. The fact that your partner expresses feelings differently doesn't make those feelings less genuine or of less value.
MYTH #10: YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN BECOME GREAT ONLY WHEN YOU STRAIGHTEN YOUR PARTNER OUT
Don't fall into the trap of believing that if you could change your partner, your relationship would be better. You are, at the very least, jointly accountable for the relationship.
Let go of the childlike notion that falling in love means finding someone who will be responsible for your happiness. You need to take responsibility for your own happiness.
If your relationship is distressed, the most important person for you to change might be yourself. Once you identify the payoffs you are subconsciously seeking with destructive behavior, you can choose to remove them from your life.
Thursday, March 17, 2005
Eeek is it the weather or me? its soooo hot.
When was the last time I actually had a proper lesson? Lesson has been canceling canceling. I lost count of it. This week you can say I just come to sch for soccer with the guys. Nah I'm not complaining, I enjoy playing with them.
I feel bad if I injured someone and all I can say is sorry. I am only interested in winning games, not hurting people. Its part and pacel of the game.
Yesterday was the dateline to pass up the application for poly. Well I somehow qualify for the engineering course. None of the courses appeals to me. Even if it does, I have to ask myelf. Do I have interest in this courses? Its better to do something you enjoy without beinging force or worse of all following your friends cos they also in that course. Nah other then sport stuff, i don't think poly life suits me.
Oh ya was reading a friend's blog, was talking about studys. I too was in that situation before like you when I was at your age. I was getting sucky result. I wondered why I had to study those when I don't think it will help me in future. Then you're so wrong. Whatever you learned now, somehow it will link with what you're doing now or future. Trust me in this. When I got a B, parent will say why not A bleh bleh bleh. Well as parent, I'm sure they want the best for their children right? You can't blame them for it. Its natural instinct for parent. So just go in n out ear. Don't get me wrong, i'm not teaching you the bad thing. Its one of the ways to counter those =X If its your friends nagging ask them shut up. Lol just kidding. You're lucky that even your friends are worried for you. In some way its good. Other then parent, friends are the other form of moral encouragement.
Sum it up. Go and do what you enjoy doing without being bother what or how people feel or think. Of course the correct way not crazy way...
When was the last time I actually had a proper lesson? Lesson has been canceling canceling. I lost count of it. This week you can say I just come to sch for soccer with the guys. Nah I'm not complaining, I enjoy playing with them.
I feel bad if I injured someone and all I can say is sorry. I am only interested in winning games, not hurting people. Its part and pacel of the game.
Yesterday was the dateline to pass up the application for poly. Well I somehow qualify for the engineering course. None of the courses appeals to me. Even if it does, I have to ask myelf. Do I have interest in this courses? Its better to do something you enjoy without beinging force or worse of all following your friends cos they also in that course. Nah other then sport stuff, i don't think poly life suits me.
Oh ya was reading a friend's blog, was talking about studys. I too was in that situation before like you when I was at your age. I was getting sucky result. I wondered why I had to study those when I don't think it will help me in future. Then you're so wrong. Whatever you learned now, somehow it will link with what you're doing now or future. Trust me in this. When I got a B, parent will say why not A bleh bleh bleh. Well as parent, I'm sure they want the best for their children right? You can't blame them for it. Its natural instinct for parent. So just go in n out ear. Don't get me wrong, i'm not teaching you the bad thing. Its one of the ways to counter those =X If its your friends nagging ask them shut up. Lol just kidding. You're lucky that even your friends are worried for you. In some way its good. Other then parent, friends are the other form of moral encouragement.
Sum it up. Go and do what you enjoy doing without being bother what or how people feel or think. Of course the correct way not crazy way...
Wednesday, March 16, 2005
BaCk! Been rather busy "entertaining" myself.. GOSH!! last week tuesday was the latest post @.@ so where and how should i start.
Practically last week was more of the starting of the March holiday. Its like getting ourselves into a holiday mood. ITE don't follow the calendar's holiday. Ours is after the March holiday thats show on the calendar.
here it goes..
10/3/04
Business Info Technology (B.I.T) OUTING !!! The department of B.I.T was all out for an outing at Clementi's bowling ally. Imagine the whole place was packed with ITE students including year 1. Total of 12 classes. Average out for the ally attendance was about 20 per class. Each class had 30 games free. Haha myself only managed to bowl 3 times. Its not my nails that prevented me from playing but i was just not interested at that moment of time. Teachers organise the outing once in a blue moon of course i don't say i was not interested but giving the execuses of my poor nail and the guys were so entu about it. Showing their strength and skill. lol damm my nail really broke =( There were the slow, fast and throwing type. I was the throwing type muhahaha. If given alot more chances to bowl i bet that area would have to go for repair due to the throwing of the bowling ball on the ally. ROFL. I was observing everyone. Their reaction before and after bowling so funny.
After that the guys wanted to play pool but too bad our polo ITE shirt don't allow. Some went home and a few others and myself went to Jurong East. There was a pasar malam going on. I bought a 1000 pieces Jay Chou Jigsaw puzzle. 75cm by 50 cm. for $5. Went to have lunch, of all places Long John Silver again..
Walk back to the MRT station when we got approached by someone. Aiya those looking for donation type but this one more special. He intro himself and never state who he was working for and said he was doing a survey on the unemployment rate bleh bleh bleh whatever shit. Then I asked him what does he want cos he was beat around the bush giving those "talks" sorry man I don't eat those. What he wanted was $$ contribution. He managed to psycho 1 to giving contribution and 1 to listen his crap. LOL. We were talking what if a pretty gal approach you/me what will you do? They still can say they will donation geeezz guys.. myself erm if is the same suitation as above then NO! aiya mostly the answer is no unless its like those Sat n Sun where sch gal n boy are out in force. No way you can escape that =(
Started doing the jigsaw on the very day after that till now haven't touch. lol will give the reason as you read further on.
11/3/04
Its another outing today ^_^ to Air Force System Division. Everyone had to turn up in sch for the bus to fetch us in. I was totally disappointed with the grp i hang with. NO ONE FROM THE GRP TURN UP ONLY ME. Haiz.. nvm i'm forgiving =/ Lucky the trip was enjoyable or i wouldn't have talk to any of the guys for 1 week =X lmao.
Get to know the other classmate better which i seldom mixed around with oh ya some girls went gaga out the army boys. While taking photo with the teachers and my class at the hall area, the teachers were leaning onto each other side by side and Mr David Lee was beside me leaning too. Total of 2 teachers leaning side by side each other so i was the victim. Mr David still can say how comfortable leanning against me was... beside me was rebbeca and you don't expect me to lean on her do you.. -_-| I was more focus on how to balancing myself then taking photo..
Thanks Dalilah for the photos ^_^ she's the tallest on the right photo =/
After dismiss, went to Tampines's Challenger bought 3 games for $73. Restaurant Empire, Hotel Giant and Medieval Total War. Hotel Giant and Medieval Total War were total FLOP !!! boring and the graphic was not to my liking. Anyone interested in that? I'll sell to you at half price. Restaurant Empire was the game that delay me from the jigsaw. I was so hook to it.
15/3/05
Morning went to TTSH for the appointment. On my way there, saw a grp of young children age 3-5. Waiting to cross the road with their teacher holding thir hand. Damm cute like little duckling. Din't wanted to jaywalk infront of them later they learn my way -_- so waited with them. While crossing the road, their teacher ask them to raise their other arm CUTE SIA. Can i kidnap them? Muhahaha
At the hospital, I did the treadmill. All done within 1 hour including the waiting. The Doc say i have high blood presure..? or something lol anyway Ii got another appointment on 8th April. BABA!
Went out with Jesscia at Tampines Mall. Had lunch at Pastamania *drools* and watched Hitch I really really recommend this movie. Love and Comedy. Damm nice.
Its about Alex "Hitch" Hitchens (Will Smith) helping other guys giving their best first impressions to a girl which they LOVE not like. Theres difference between like and love. Maybe you guys might get a tips or two. At a certain part when Eva Mendes and her friend was at a match-made session when Hitch (Will Smith) was about to get shoo off, he was saying falling in love was so GOD DAMM HARD it somehow woke me up or something the other one was when Hitch just got back home from jogging, comes in Kevin James as Albert Brennaman. Albert was talking about how badly he misses her and how he was feeling. feel like dieing somesort. Then it came into my mind when we broke off that was what I was feeling like... haizz You got to watch the show to understand it. Maybe I'll watch again or something. Oh ya one of the actress Eva Mendes shares the same B'day as me but 11 years older then me =/
16/4/05
As for today, there was no school. BABA but still need to go there for soccer. Arul lar, master of persuading. Anyway i got nothing to do at home other then jigsaw.
Ok time for my jigsaw puzzle ^_^
Practically last week was more of the starting of the March holiday. Its like getting ourselves into a holiday mood. ITE don't follow the calendar's holiday. Ours is after the March holiday thats show on the calendar.
here it goes..
10/3/04
Business Info Technology (B.I.T) OUTING !!! The department of B.I.T was all out for an outing at Clementi's bowling ally. Imagine the whole place was packed with ITE students including year 1. Total of 12 classes. Average out for the ally attendance was about 20 per class. Each class had 30 games free. Haha myself only managed to bowl 3 times. Its not my nails that prevented me from playing but i was just not interested at that moment of time. Teachers organise the outing once in a blue moon of course i don't say i was not interested but giving the execuses of my poor nail and the guys were so entu about it. Showing their strength and skill. lol damm my nail really broke =( There were the slow, fast and throwing type. I was the throwing type muhahaha. If given alot more chances to bowl i bet that area would have to go for repair due to the throwing of the bowling ball on the ally. ROFL. I was observing everyone. Their reaction before and after bowling so funny.
After that the guys wanted to play pool but too bad our polo ITE shirt don't allow. Some went home and a few others and myself went to Jurong East. There was a pasar malam going on. I bought a 1000 pieces Jay Chou Jigsaw puzzle. 75cm by 50 cm. for $5. Went to have lunch, of all places Long John Silver again..
Walk back to the MRT station when we got approached by someone. Aiya those looking for donation type but this one more special. He intro himself and never state who he was working for and said he was doing a survey on the unemployment rate bleh bleh bleh whatever shit. Then I asked him what does he want cos he was beat around the bush giving those "talks" sorry man I don't eat those. What he wanted was $$ contribution. He managed to psycho 1 to giving contribution and 1 to listen his crap. LOL. We were talking what if a pretty gal approach you/me what will you do? They still can say they will donation geeezz guys.. myself erm if is the same suitation as above then NO! aiya mostly the answer is no unless its like those Sat n Sun where sch gal n boy are out in force. No way you can escape that =(
Started doing the jigsaw on the very day after that till now haven't touch. lol will give the reason as you read further on.
11/3/04
Its another outing today ^_^ to Air Force System Division. Everyone had to turn up in sch for the bus to fetch us in. I was totally disappointed with the grp i hang with. NO ONE FROM THE GRP TURN UP ONLY ME. Haiz.. nvm i'm forgiving =/ Lucky the trip was enjoyable or i wouldn't have talk to any of the guys for 1 week =X lmao.
Get to know the other classmate better which i seldom mixed around with oh ya some girls went gaga out the army boys. While taking photo with the teachers and my class at the hall area, the teachers were leaning onto each other side by side and Mr David Lee was beside me leaning too. Total of 2 teachers leaning side by side each other so i was the victim. Mr David still can say how comfortable leanning against me was... beside me was rebbeca and you don't expect me to lean on her do you.. -_-| I was more focus on how to balancing myself then taking photo..
Thanks Dalilah for the photos ^_^ she's the tallest on the right photo =/
After dismiss, went to Tampines's Challenger bought 3 games for $73. Restaurant Empire, Hotel Giant and Medieval Total War. Hotel Giant and Medieval Total War were total FLOP !!! boring and the graphic was not to my liking. Anyone interested in that? I'll sell to you at half price. Restaurant Empire was the game that delay me from the jigsaw. I was so hook to it.
15/3/05
Morning went to TTSH for the appointment. On my way there, saw a grp of young children age 3-5. Waiting to cross the road with their teacher holding thir hand. Damm cute like little duckling. Din't wanted to jaywalk infront of them later they learn my way -_- so waited with them. While crossing the road, their teacher ask them to raise their other arm CUTE SIA. Can i kidnap them? Muhahaha
At the hospital, I did the treadmill. All done within 1 hour including the waiting. The Doc say i have high blood presure..? or something lol anyway Ii got another appointment on 8th April. BABA!
Went out with Jesscia at Tampines Mall. Had lunch at Pastamania *drools* and watched Hitch I really really recommend this movie. Love and Comedy. Damm nice.
Its about Alex "Hitch" Hitchens (Will Smith) helping other guys giving their best first impressions to a girl which they LOVE not like. Theres difference between like and love. Maybe you guys might get a tips or two. At a certain part when Eva Mendes and her friend was at a match-made session when Hitch (Will Smith) was about to get shoo off, he was saying falling in love was so GOD DAMM HARD it somehow woke me up or something the other one was when Hitch just got back home from jogging, comes in Kevin James as Albert Brennaman. Albert was talking about how badly he misses her and how he was feeling. feel like dieing somesort. Then it came into my mind when we broke off that was what I was feeling like... haizz You got to watch the show to understand it. Maybe I'll watch again or something. Oh ya one of the actress Eva Mendes shares the same B'day as me but 11 years older then me =/
16/4/05
As for today, there was no school. BABA but still need to go there for soccer. Arul lar, master of persuading. Anyway i got nothing to do at home other then jigsaw.
Ok time for my jigsaw puzzle ^_^
Tuesday, March 08, 2005
Yesterday I was at Hougang. Met up with Vinz, Erik and Huifen in the morning to school. Gee that teddy tubby aka alvin (usually call him Vinz) was LATE. That sucker ask me not to be late but he came late.. I guess it got to do with the way he walks. ROFL
During lessons, Don and his sidekicks, Brian and Edmund talk more then usual. Don't know what got into Don, he was talking so much. I think without Nisa around, he went haywire. Brian laugh was like so fake and LOUD. Edmund as usual. From one end of the class you can heard exactly what they are talking about.
If anyone of you guys above read this,which i don't think so, try to change. There are some who are entertainning you only cos your jokes are neither fun or whatever. No offence though.
After school, Vinz and myslef went to watch Assault On Precinct 13 at Jurong Point(JP). Thats the earlier cos sch finished at 3+ and show started about 4.45pm. My first time at JP cinema. Not bad. Overall the show was GOOD. Recommend this show. Just the right amount of talking and action althought Vinz was somehow disappointed cos there was no sex scene. LMAO Alot of f*** word geee. We smuggled food in.. those flourball 3 for $2 not bad muhahaha
Today went for hospital appointment at Tan Tock Seng Hospital (TTSH). Nothing special just like what they did at polyclinic doing the same checking again. Doctor say nothing to do with the heart. Had to be back there on 15th to run on the Treadmill. Sian.
During lessons, Don and his sidekicks, Brian and Edmund talk more then usual. Don't know what got into Don, he was talking so much. I think without Nisa around, he went haywire. Brian laugh was like so fake and LOUD. Edmund as usual. From one end of the class you can heard exactly what they are talking about.
If anyone of you guys above read this,which i don't think so, try to change. There are some who are entertainning you only cos your jokes are neither fun or whatever. No offence though.
After school, Vinz and myslef went to watch Assault On Precinct 13 at Jurong Point(JP). Thats the earlier cos sch finished at 3+ and show started about 4.45pm. My first time at JP cinema. Not bad. Overall the show was GOOD. Recommend this show. Just the right amount of talking and action althought Vinz was somehow disappointed cos there was no sex scene. LMAO Alot of f*** word geee. We smuggled food in.. those flourball 3 for $2 not bad muhahaha
Today went for hospital appointment at Tan Tock Seng Hospital (TTSH). Nothing special just like what they did at polyclinic doing the same checking again. Doctor say nothing to do with the heart. Had to be back there on 15th to run on the Treadmill. Sian.
Saturday, March 05, 2005
Being twenty means...
out of teenage?
nearer to ns?
more responsibility?
more stress?
more problems?
whatever..
This is our Utopia Kingdom Banner for the day. Lol I don't why the durian cake. Eversince i mention durian in the Kingdom forum, Jet and guys went crazy. I won't go into detail. Muhahaha.
How did I spend the day. erm whole day at home facing the PC !! sian. I din't wanted any celebration. Even though my aunt wanted to go out for dinner but I just stayed at home. She bought back a Black Forest Cake! No singing no blowing of candles please.. I just cut the cake and ate almost half. Thats my dinner. Muhahaha
I want to thanks those who send their greetings? I don't know whats the word call. I was kinda puzzled because usually only a handful will sms or something other then the friendster reminder. Nah just curious.
Once again THANKS GUYS N GALS
out of teenage?
nearer to ns?
more responsibility?
more stress?
more problems?
whatever..
This is our Utopia Kingdom Banner for the day. Lol I don't why the durian cake. Eversince i mention durian in the Kingdom forum, Jet and guys went crazy. I won't go into detail. Muhahaha.
How did I spend the day. erm whole day at home facing the PC !! sian. I din't wanted any celebration. Even though my aunt wanted to go out for dinner but I just stayed at home. She bought back a Black Forest Cake! No singing no blowing of candles please.. I just cut the cake and ate almost half. Thats my dinner. Muhahaha
I want to thanks those who send their greetings? I don't know whats the word call. I was kinda puzzled because usually only a handful will sms or something other then the friendster reminder. Nah just curious.
Once again THANKS GUYS N GALS
Friday, March 04, 2005
By the time I finished this writing, I should be twenty. *act blur* Yar should be.
No class today. Thats the 3rd week straight row on Friday that Mr David Lee had canceled lesson.
Wanted to watch Assault On Precinct 13 this morning at 9.15am but lazy and overslep. Shall postone to next week Tuesday thats when the actual day for the hospital appointment. Of all days but tuesday, I don't have lesson every tuesday. Could have gotten a MC and a spare day to rest. Muhahaha
You know i'm been playing this utopia game for like almost 2 year. Chat with alot of different nationality players from Netherland, States, Malaysia, Philippines, Romania and lots more. Recently I exchanged handphone numbers with 2 kingdom mates. Jet and Carlo. Both Filipinos guys (aww not gals) but Jet is living at States. Exchanged handphone numbers to infom each other incase of war. Silly huh? More like Utopia freak. Just got our 5th war win. Thats the present they give me. Cheapskate =X I wonder how much is per sms to each of them. To States and the other to Philippines.
Added a new tag board. So far so good. Its free to be invaded now. *cheers*
Exactly one month, the roses should have wither but has my feeling?
No class today. Thats the 3rd week straight row on Friday that Mr David Lee had canceled lesson.
Wanted to watch Assault On Precinct 13 this morning at 9.15am but lazy and overslep. Shall postone to next week Tuesday thats when the actual day for the hospital appointment. Of all days but tuesday, I don't have lesson every tuesday. Could have gotten a MC and a spare day to rest. Muhahaha
You know i'm been playing this utopia game for like almost 2 year. Chat with alot of different nationality players from Netherland, States, Malaysia, Philippines, Romania and lots more. Recently I exchanged handphone numbers with 2 kingdom mates. Jet and Carlo. Both Filipinos guys (aww not gals) but Jet is living at States. Exchanged handphone numbers to infom each other incase of war. Silly huh? More like Utopia freak. Just got our 5th war win. Thats the present they give me. Cheapskate =X I wonder how much is per sms to each of them. To States and the other to Philippines.
Added a new tag board. So far so good. Its free to be invaded now. *cheers*
Exactly one month, the roses should have wither but has my feeling?
Thursday, March 03, 2005
Wanted to blog yesterday but was lazy. So I shall combine everything together.
I've been bathing 3-4 times daily with cold water!!! The weather around Tampines or is it me is damm HOT partly because of the bush fire around Tampines area and the haze after the fire. From my aunt's house, I can even see the haze at the field downstair. Take care to those living near Tampines and those studying in Temasek Polytechnic(TP). Hmm why TP? Don't know just came out of my mind.
When was the last time I walk in the rain? Today was raining kinda normal for me. Was with Zann and Jessica at the MRT station waiting for Peiying while outside was raining "normally". They were persuading me to share a cab just right 4 person cos i wanted to walk in the rain. Before Peiying arrived, Yansong came along so thats 5 person i thought no need to share but then comes Alvin aka Teddy Tubby. LOL he walks like one to me. Total 6. 3 on 1 Cab. Bill 86 cents each. ROFL.
After the first lesson was break, we played soccer in the rain. Nice sweet whatever.. wasted my 31 cents which i can saved if i took a bus to school. Ok not funny. The rain was on for 15-20 minutes and it stop. I wish it had continued. Right now I'm sick. Arghh damm weak caught a cold and kept sneezing maybe fever tomorrow..
Mr David Lee. my class advisor was discussing with the class about a project $1,500-$1,600 pay. Ask me and weihao whether we were interested in it. Share the amount. I suggested I take 70% he take 30% LOL. Programming on webby and database if i remember correctly. Mr Lee see us so high. Asked us to consider.
The other discussing was about the trip to Aceh, the tsunami hit area. To help out over there. Its confirm Mr Lee is going there on May-June period. Ask if we wanted to join him but he stated something. There were still minor earthquake and crossfire between the rebel and Indonesia army. Hmm not sure if i want to go there. I got nothing to lose. Maybe ask around if anyone is interested accompany me which i doubt there is anyone interested. Muhaha see how first
I've been watching the new series Survivor 10 at Palau every friday at 10pm and Amazing Race 7 every wednesday at 10.30pm. Why i watched this? Because it pushes people to the limit which is when they show their real colour and the beautiful scenery. Backstabber, betrayer, alliance and many other stuff. You name it.
Amazing Race 7 features Rob and Amber. Amber was the previous winner in Survivor. Right now all of them are at Peru. From the camara view, everything is nice and simple.
Oh ya its Zann's Birthday. They are out partying tonight at Chinablack. Zann on the house !!! Why i never go..? erm thats my problem? muhaha just kidding. Aiya 2morrow got school, my aunt will nag saying tomorrow got school bleh bleh bleh and I don't drink. Maybe next time when no school or something. Go there drink coke or orange juice. LMAO
I personally like 29th February. Every 4 years on February there is 29th. That is what they call a leap year. Its so unique. Do you know that last year February, there were 5 Sunday? on the 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd and 29th was a Sunday. Its comes after 28 years later so next will be on 2032. Click on Why are leap years used? to find out more on leap years.
Birthday that falls on 29th February, I wonder how are they going to celebrate it. Either they celebrate on the 28th February or 1st of March and have to wait for 4 years till the actual day. I'll make sure its a unforgetable celebration if I know of any friends's birthday that lies on that day. I promise. :P
I found out who called me. It was from Angela. Wait let me continue before you start thinking anyhow. Angela from National Kidney Fountain(NKF) same old thing donation card. Haizzz of all names... anyway guys and gals donate generously when I offer you the card. Be proud cos i don't always go around asking for donation. haha
Cool i found out whose Enest0. He is not underscorcer. Well not exactly I found out but he told me who he was. I din't expect my friends to pay attention to my blog other then Weihao and Chun Wai tagging.
Talking about tagging, I need to look for a new tag board. The one i had is out because "Costs are running very high, and our signups are by hundreds daily. Our sevice provider has informed us of the high usage of the DoodleBoard service and we have no choice but to act to resolve this. As a result, we regret to inform all our Basic Users that DoodleBoard will no longer be able to provide the service free. Enhanced members will continue to enjoy DoodleBoard service with no service disruption." Thats the reason from them. Lol US $2 per month.
Last Friday night, met up with Adrian and Chun Wai at Compass Point at 9pm. What the... same old them LATE by 30mins basket. Forgive them cos Ester wanted them to accompany her. We had drinks at Starbucks and after awhile Yongheng joined us. We were talking about how each of us is getting on in school. Yongheng been in NS for 6 months, Esther getting married end of this year duh thats what i heard from her like 2 years ago, Adrian and Chun Wai in poly busy rushing for their project. Busy life in Poly huh? Hmm i'm still thinkinh of signing on or go into poly IF i can..
Ciao got to sleep now its 3:11am now !!! Will look for new tag board tomorrow.
I've been bathing 3-4 times daily with cold water!!! The weather around Tampines or is it me is damm HOT partly because of the bush fire around Tampines area and the haze after the fire. From my aunt's house, I can even see the haze at the field downstair. Take care to those living near Tampines and those studying in Temasek Polytechnic(TP). Hmm why TP? Don't know just came out of my mind.
When was the last time I walk in the rain? Today was raining kinda normal for me. Was with Zann and Jessica at the MRT station waiting for Peiying while outside was raining "normally". They were persuading me to share a cab just right 4 person cos i wanted to walk in the rain. Before Peiying arrived, Yansong came along so thats 5 person i thought no need to share but then comes Alvin aka Teddy Tubby. LOL he walks like one to me. Total 6. 3 on 1 Cab. Bill 86 cents each. ROFL.
After the first lesson was break, we played soccer in the rain. Nice sweet whatever.. wasted my 31 cents which i can saved if i took a bus to school. Ok not funny. The rain was on for 15-20 minutes and it stop. I wish it had continued. Right now I'm sick. Arghh damm weak caught a cold and kept sneezing maybe fever tomorrow..
Mr David Lee. my class advisor was discussing with the class about a project $1,500-$1,600 pay. Ask me and weihao whether we were interested in it. Share the amount. I suggested I take 70% he take 30% LOL. Programming on webby and database if i remember correctly. Mr Lee see us so high. Asked us to consider.
The other discussing was about the trip to Aceh, the tsunami hit area. To help out over there. Its confirm Mr Lee is going there on May-June period. Ask if we wanted to join him but he stated something. There were still minor earthquake and crossfire between the rebel and Indonesia army. Hmm not sure if i want to go there. I got nothing to lose. Maybe ask around if anyone is interested accompany me which i doubt there is anyone interested. Muhaha see how first
I've been watching the new series Survivor 10 at Palau every friday at 10pm and Amazing Race 7 every wednesday at 10.30pm. Why i watched this? Because it pushes people to the limit which is when they show their real colour and the beautiful scenery. Backstabber, betrayer, alliance and many other stuff. You name it.
Amazing Race 7 features Rob and Amber. Amber was the previous winner in Survivor. Right now all of them are at Peru. From the camara view, everything is nice and simple.
Oh ya its Zann's Birthday. They are out partying tonight at Chinablack. Zann on the house !!! Why i never go..? erm thats my problem? muhaha just kidding. Aiya 2morrow got school, my aunt will nag saying tomorrow got school bleh bleh bleh and I don't drink. Maybe next time when no school or something. Go there drink coke or orange juice. LMAO
I personally like 29th February. Every 4 years on February there is 29th. That is what they call a leap year. Its so unique. Do you know that last year February, there were 5 Sunday? on the 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd and 29th was a Sunday. Its comes after 28 years later so next will be on 2032. Click on Why are leap years used? to find out more on leap years.
Birthday that falls on 29th February, I wonder how are they going to celebrate it. Either they celebrate on the 28th February or 1st of March and have to wait for 4 years till the actual day. I'll make sure its a unforgetable celebration if I know of any friends's birthday that lies on that day. I promise. :P
I found out who called me. It was from Angela. Wait let me continue before you start thinking anyhow. Angela from National Kidney Fountain(NKF) same old thing donation card. Haizzz of all names... anyway guys and gals donate generously when I offer you the card. Be proud cos i don't always go around asking for donation. haha
Cool i found out whose Enest0. He is not underscorcer. Well not exactly I found out but he told me who he was. I din't expect my friends to pay attention to my blog other then Weihao and Chun Wai tagging.
Talking about tagging, I need to look for a new tag board. The one i had is out because "Costs are running very high, and our signups are by hundreds daily. Our sevice provider has informed us of the high usage of the DoodleBoard service and we have no choice but to act to resolve this. As a result, we regret to inform all our Basic Users that DoodleBoard will no longer be able to provide the service free. Enhanced members will continue to enjoy DoodleBoard service with no service disruption." Thats the reason from them. Lol US $2 per month.
Last Friday night, met up with Adrian and Chun Wai at Compass Point at 9pm. What the... same old them LATE by 30mins basket. Forgive them cos Ester wanted them to accompany her. We had drinks at Starbucks and after awhile Yongheng joined us. We were talking about how each of us is getting on in school. Yongheng been in NS for 6 months, Esther getting married end of this year duh thats what i heard from her like 2 years ago, Adrian and Chun Wai in poly busy rushing for their project. Busy life in Poly huh? Hmm i'm still thinkinh of signing on or go into poly IF i can..
Ciao got to sleep now its 3:11am now !!! Will look for new tag board tomorrow.
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